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#RI-69ba76df·4 months ago·
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Moved across the country for fiancé despite concerns

Fiancé ended relationship over phone after I moved for him, now behaving unclearly

What I wish I knew
"Communication and boundaries were not compatible"
If I could tell you one thing
"Evaluate compatibility before making life-changing decisions"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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