relationshipLong-distance decision
#RI-69a91096·2 months ago·
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“Move to Florida vs stay in NJ”
What Actually Happened
I'm torn between moving to Florida for my dreams and staying in NJ for my boyfriend's career goals
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had more clarity on my priorities and what's truly important to me"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your partner about your goals and expectations"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
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Same Outcome Band
73%
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