RelationshipsMarital Expectations
#RI-6ab202e7·4 months ago·
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“became a SAHM for family reasons”
What Actually Happened
Husband expects me to do all household duties and parenting responsibilities
What I wish I knew
"His expectations wouldn't change regardless of my work status"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate clearly and set boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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