relationshipCommunication
#RI-6aa37dc4·4 months ago·
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“woke him up scared at night”
What Actually Happened
Saw helicopter, felt anxious, woke husband
What I wish I knew
"how he'd react to unexpected situations"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate calmly and clearly in stressful moments"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
762
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
74%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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