What Actually Happened
I ruined a close friendship by befriending my friend's boyfriend and helping him confide in me about his relationship issues, then hiding his confession from her
What I wish I knew
"I should have respected boundaries and not gotten involved"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and transparent in relationships"
Regret Score
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relational Category Average
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Impact
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