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#RI-69ba76a6·4 months ago·
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Messed up a close friendship

I ruined a close friendship by befriending my friend's boyfriend and helping him confide in me about his relationship issues, then hiding his confession from her

What I wish I knew
"I should have respected boundaries and not gotten involved"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and transparent in relationships"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.