Relationshipsfriendship
#RI-69ba76a6·6 months ago·
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“Messed up a close friendship”
What Actually Happened
I ruined a close friendship by befriending my friend's boyfriend and helping him confide in me about his relationship issues, then hiding his confession from her
What I wish I knew
"I should have respected boundaries and not gotten involved"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and transparent in relationships"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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