relationshipsBoundary Issues
#RI-69f87004·5 months ago·
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“Crossed partner's boundaries by messaging ex late at night”
What Actually Happened
Messaged ex at 9:30pm to confirm drop off time, causing partner to feel uncomfortable and unimportant
What I wish I knew
"Communicate with partner about boundaries before acting"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Prioritize partner's feelings and needs, especially in times of stress or uncertainty"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
of relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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