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#RI-6a6b03c3·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 years

Got a puppy to cope with mental health

Boyfriend became distant and controlling after I got a puppy, disagreeing on how to care for it

What I wish I knew
"How to prepare for potential relationship changes when introducing a new pet"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your intentions and boundaries when introducing a new pet"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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