relationalgrief
#RI-6a7aac70·6 months ago·
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“met someone I loved after they passed away”
What Actually Happened
I met my best friend at the cemetery, learning of her passing 4 days prior, feeling isolated in a foreign country
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known she was struggling"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't underestimate the power of human connection"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
685
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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