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#RI-69a913de·2 months ago·
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Marrying someone who had previously been flirtatious with others

Feeling less chosen and emotionally disconnected from my partner

What I wish I knew
"To assess his emotional maturity and commitment before marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about emotional needs and boundaries in a relationship"
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7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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