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#RI-6a6b037b·9 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year after marriage

“Marry someone with similar interests”

Wife's past trauma and differing interests caused tension

What I wish I knew
"Her feelings on long-term travel and living abroad"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate and find common ground before marriage"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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