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#RI-69f8770a·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 weeks after breakup

“married him after 9 years”

He cheated on me emotionally and lied about his past relationships, and now he has a Tinder profile

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew about his past infidelity before marrying him"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of people who lie and cheat, even if they seem perfect"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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