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#RI-69ba78a2·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year into our relationship

married him without knowing

I discovered he had a child before me, who died

What I wish I knew
"he was honest about his past"
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and investigate your partner's past"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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