RelationshipsIntimacy Issues
#RI-6a6b0976·9 months ago·
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“Waited until marriage for religious reasons”
What Actually Happened
My wife's anatomy disgusts me, causing emotional distress and depression.
What I wish I knew
"Sexual aversion may be more common than I thought"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings, even if they're difficult to discuss"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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