Relationshipsdivorce
#RI-69f87396·7 months ago·
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“Considering divorce after 19 years of marriage”
What Actually Happened
My husband's extreme reactions and self-pitying behavior have caused significant stress and emotional distress
What I wish I knew
"How to better handle his behavior and protect myself"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and set clear boundaries to avoid emotional manipulation"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
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