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#RI-6a6b066e·9 months ago·
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Lookback: 9 months after separation

“to not make an ultimatum or move his stuff”

STBX cheated and left for the affair partner, leaving his belongings in our home

What I wish I knew
"the full extent of his plans and intentions"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate clearly with your partner and set boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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