RelationshipsInfidelity
#RI-6adf44c2·3 months ago·
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“Giving my wife space to take solo trips”
What Actually Happened
I thought I was giving my wife space to cope, but she used three separate trips to cheat on me. I am completely blindsided and feel I have nothing left to give to this marriage.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had realized our emotional disconnect needed direct confrontation rather than distance."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Address marital disconnection immediately instead of assuming space apart will fix the problem."
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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