relationshipsSelf-esteem
#RI-6aaa1576·4 months ago·
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“Married someone I thought was a good match”
What Actually Happened
People constantly comment on my husband's looks, making me feel ugly
What I wish I knew
"Not to marry someone who would constantly be objectified"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Choose someone who values you for who you are"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
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relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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