relationshipBoundary Issue
#RI-6a9eae52·4 months ago·
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“Hosting a past sexual partner in our shared living space”
What Actually Happened
I feel uncomfortable and disrespected by my girlfriend's decision to host a guy with a sexual history at our place, especially when our intimacy is frozen
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my boundaries effectively without escalating the situation"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your concerns calmly and assertively, setting clear boundaries without blaming or accusing your partner"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
767
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
74%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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