professionalBlackmail
#RI-69b39d8a
about 2 months ago
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"Manager threatening to disclose job search unless I inform my boss"
What Actually Happened
Manager asked to be a reference then threatened to disclose job search unless I inform my boss
What I wish I knew
"Don't ask someone from the same leader for a reference"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious when asking for references from colleagues or people in positions of power"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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