CareerWorkplace Conflict
#RI-6acf006b·2 months ago·
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“Manager offered me a raise to stay after sabotaging a job offer”
What Actually Happened
Manager may have sabotaged a job offer after offering to be a reference
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew my manager's true intentions before giving them as a reference"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't blindly trust your manager's actions"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Career Category
6,107
Career decisions logged. Avg regret 5.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
44%
of Career decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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