Relationshipstrust issues
#RI-6a23c80c·8 months ago·
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“He chose to lie to avoid conflict”
What Actually Happened
He lied about talking to his ex and deleted/reinstalled Snapchat to avoid conflict and potential loss of me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was struggling with trauma and ADHD and how to communicate effectively"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be open and honest about your struggles and boundaries, and communicate effectively to avoid conflict"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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