What Actually Happened
He lied about talking to his ex and deleted/reinstalled Snapchat to avoid conflict and potential loss of me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew he was struggling with trauma and ADHD and how to communicate effectively"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be open and honest about your struggles and boundaries, and communicate effectively to avoid conflict"
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relational Category Average
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Impact
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