Relationshipsfirst-time
#RI-6a6b0abb·9 months ago·
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“Lost virginity with a partner”
What Actually Happened
Partner used a blindfold, ball gag, and made questionable comments about punishment and slapping.
What I wish I knew
"Understood his kink preferences before engaging in intimacy"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries and kink preferences clearly before engaging in intimacy"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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