What Actually Happened
Partner used a blindfold, ball gag, and made questionable comments about punishment and slapping.
What I wish I knew
"Understood his kink preferences before engaging in intimacy"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries and kink preferences clearly before engaging in intimacy"
Regret Score
6/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
relational Category Average
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Impact
-
Financial and Psychosocial impact distributions for this subset.
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