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Personal GrowthIdentity Crisis
#RI-6a7aac12·4 months ago·
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Lost sense of self in social interactions

Mimicked friends' personalities, causing misunderstandings and lost friendships

What I wish I knew
"Identified my own personality traits and values"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be authentic and true to yourself"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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