RelationshipsBreakup
#RI-6a6b088b·9 months ago·
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“Lost myself in 6-year relationship”
What Actually Happened
Dissolved into partner, became controlling out of anxiety
What I wish I knew
"Recognized toxic behavior sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Learn to live for yourself, take responsibility for actions"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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