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RelationshipsLack of intimacy
#RI-6a7aa9c1·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 7.5 years into the relationship

haven't felt in love with partner for years

Recognized being inconsiderate and prioritizing own needs over partner's

What I wish I knew
"How to maintain romantic feelings over time"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and prioritize relationship equally"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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