relationshipInfidelity
#RI-69ba7866·4 months ago·
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“looked at wife's phone”
What Actually Happened
My wife told her friends her ex was better looking than me. She thinks he's great because he's fair-skinned, speaks Spanish, and looks like Justin Bieber.
What I wish I knew
"She didn't value me for who I am."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and insecurities."
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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