relationalcheating
#RI-6a7aaa7b·3 months ago·
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“dated long distance”
What Actually Happened
Met at Star Trek Convention, dated long distance, discovered cheating
What I wish I knew
"she had been friends with her new boyfriend for years"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"set boundaries and communicate openly"
Regret Index
7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
685
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
11%
of relational decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.
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