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RelationshipsDistant Spouse
#RI-69f87542·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 13 years of marriage

“Consider divorce due to loneliness”

Husband has no interest in spending time with me, feels like a housemate and friend with benefits

What I wish I knew
"My husband's desire for alone time may be a sign of deeper issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek counseling to address underlying issues before considering divorce"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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