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Lifestylegrief
#RI-6a23caaa·8 months ago·
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Lookback: over a decade

“grieving brother while he's still alive”

brother's long, painful fight with brain tumors and seizures has left me feeling guilty and terrified of losing him

What I wish I knew
"we could have prevented so much suffering if we had acted sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't wait to seek help, act sooner to prevent unnecessary pain"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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