personalgrief
#RI-6a23caaa·6 months ago·
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“grieving brother while he's still alive”
What Actually Happened
brother's long, painful fight with brain tumors and seizures has left me feeling guilty and terrified of losing him
What I wish I knew
"we could have prevented so much suffering if we had acted sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"don't wait to seek help, act sooner to prevent unnecessary pain"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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personal Category
596
personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
58%
of personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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