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MarriageMessy Spouse
#RI-6a7aa9f5·6 months ago·
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Living with a messy spouse for years

Living with constant mess, embarrassment to invite friends over

What I wish I knew
"She'd take ownership of household chores"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly, set clear expectations"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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