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#RI-6a7aab8d·8 months ago·
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Lookback: many years

“lied about paternity”

had on-again, off-again fling with ex, questioned paternity of her child

What I wish I knew
"confirmed paternity before denying it"
If I could tell you one thing
"honesty is always the best policy"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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