Relationshipsinfidelity
#RI-6a23c9d5·8 months ago·
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“Spent 8k on international trip for her birthday”
What Actually Happened
She was hiding a crush on an ex and lied about it, causing me to lose trust
What I wish I knew
"She was still infatuated with him"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with your partner about your feelings and actions"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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