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#RI-6aa8c4b3·3 months ago·
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Lookback: after marriage and child

married someone who wanted change

Wasted time with someone who doesn't want me, felt used and disappointed

What I wish I knew
"How different we were before marriage"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest about your true intentions from the start"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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