RelationshipsLoss of Control
#RI-6ac8e060·5 months ago·
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“Gave up control of household and family decisions”
What Actually Happened
Wife took over control of overseas holiday planning after I spent hours researching, then she cancelled the trip due to stress
What I wish I knew
"Marriage is not about equality, but a quest for power"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate and set boundaries to avoid losing control"
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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