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#RI-6a6b05de·7 months ago·
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Lookback: a few years

let him plan dates

my boyfriend doesn't plan dates, making me think about our future

What I wish I knew
"he's not willing to plan dates"
If I could tell you one thing
"consider if this is a dealbreaker"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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