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#RI-6a7aac4d·3 months ago·
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“Don't put people on a pedestal”
What Actually Happened
I used to idealize people I liked, but now I see them as normal humans with flaws
What I wish I knew
"To actually get to know them before idealizing"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Base a person's value on data, not physical looks or fantasy"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
153
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
64%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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