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#RI-6a9e52d8·4 months ago·
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“Waited until 7th date to disclose non-penetrative sex preference”
What Actually Happened
She waited until 7th date to tell me she won't have penetrative sex
What I wish I knew
"She should have been upfront about it"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open about boundaries from the start"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
755
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
74%
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