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#RI-6a23c7d8·8 months ago·
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“Expressing concerns about lack of intimacy in a 7 year relationship”
What Actually Happened
I've been trying to initiate sex for years, but she's shown less and less interest, making me feel unwanted and unloved
What I wish I knew
"Finding a way to communicate my feelings without blaming or hurting her"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and open about your feelings, but also listen to her perspective and work together to find a solution"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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