“Lack of effort in relationships”

Item: Lack of effort in relationships
Rating: 2
Author: u_everythingisrene

What Actually Happened

Boyfriend falls asleep during hangouts, causing me to feel uninteresting and sad

What I wish I knew

"He values our time together more"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Communicate openly about your feelings and needs"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

SettledMixedSevere

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relationships Category

559

relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

57%

of relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.