datinginfidelity
#RI-6a7aad0e·6 months ago·
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“kept someone close while not wanting a relationship”
What Actually Happened
I kept a girl close while not wanting a relationship, broke an agreement, and wasn't honest about it
What I wish I knew
"being honest is more important than avoiding discomfort"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"be truthful about your intentions and feelings"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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dating Category
66
dating decisions logged. Avg regret 6.1/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
50%
of dating decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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