abusechildhood
#RI-69a918b8·2 months ago·
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“kept secret for years”
What Actually Happened
I was abused by my stepdad when I was 13. I didn't stop it and even liked the attention, which I'm still ashamed about
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had stopped it and told someone"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and others about what happened"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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abuse Category
25
abuse decisions logged. Avg regret 8.8/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
84%
of abuse decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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