Relationshipsabusive
#RI-69ba7b06·6 months ago·
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“jumped into marriage too soon and too young”
What Actually Happened
I was physically and mentally abused in my marriage, and I forgave my partner multiple times despite their infidelity and lack of respect for me
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had waited longer to get married and evaluated my partner more thoroughly"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't rush into marriage and prioritize your own emotional well-being"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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