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#RI-69ba78e3·4 months ago·
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jumped into marriage too soon

I was physically and mentally abused by my ex-wife, who I forgave multiple times. I still feel alone and hurt

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had taken more time to get to know her before marrying her"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't rush into marriage, take time to know your partner"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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