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PatriarchyExpectations
#RI-6a7aaa12·6 months ago·
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Lookback: for her entire life

Judging daughter-in-law harshly

Being judged harshly for questioning family expectations

What I wish I knew
"Basic comfort is family's responsibility"
If I could tell you one thing
"Respect and comfort are non-negotiable"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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