social lifeDating
#RI-6a6b0546·7 months ago·
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“Joining hobbies to meet people”
What Actually Happened
I realized joining hobbies isn't a reliable way to meet people, especially outside school or work
What I wish I knew
"The importance of repeated, low-pressure contact in social environments"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider the accessibility and overstimulation of social spaces before suggesting they meet people there"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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social life Category
4
social life decisions logged. Avg regret 7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
50%
of social life decisions land in the regret band the same as this one.
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