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#RI-6a9ebfbc·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 26 days in NICU, ongoing

had IVF without genetic testing

daughter born with severe medical issues, uncertain future

What I wish I knew
"genetic testing of embryos would have been beneficial"
If I could tell you one thing
"don't assume age makes genetic testing unnecessary"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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