relationaltrust
#RI-6a6b08c1·7 months ago·
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“Inviting Ryan over despite knowing my discomfort”
What Actually Happened
My ex invited Ryan over while I was still living with her, despite knowing I was uncomfortable with him
What I wish I knew
"She respected my boundaries more when we were together"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your boundaries clearly and respect your partner's feelings"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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