RelationshipsBreakup
#RI-69f86de9·7 months ago·
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“Investing in a relationship for over a year.”
What Actually Happened
I invested over a year into a serious relationship, even introducing him to my daughter. He suddenly broke up with me, and I realized I was the only one putting in effort the whole time.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known he wasn't as invested as I was and that my effort was one-sided."
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Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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