RelationshipsLack of motivation
#RI-6a6b0377·9 months ago·
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“Invested in her happiness”
What Actually Happened
She stopped investing in herself, complaining about being tired and unhappy, and our intimacy suffered
What I wish I knew
"She needed more than just a supportive partner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and encourage change, don't just be supportive"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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