Relationshipsconfusing relationship dynamics
#RI-6a7aab11·8 months ago·
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“Invested 7 months in unclear relationship”
What Actually Happened
I invested 7 months in a girl who said she liked me but wasn't ready for a relationship. She's been physically affectionate but hasn't made any clear moves. I'm starting to think she likes what I provide, not me as a partner.
What I wish I knew
"If she's interested, she'd make it clear by now"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of ambiguous relationships and set clear boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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